But how can you assure me of that? Where is your proof? Show me what convinced you of that. How comes the existence of ghosts has not been officially established? Where is this energy you speak of? What do you mean by non-physical? If we have a subtler body made of some sort of energy then surely it must be physical also? Why do people insist on using oxymoronic terms?i assure you that we do have a non-physical body made out of a subter energy that can be projected possessing a set of senses of perception similar and serving for the same purposes as those from the physical body-we have para-eyes, para-ears and para-everything,ett.
Don't get me wrong. I'm not here to dictate to people what they should or should not believe, but I will highlight logic to them. If you think an ethereal body is responsible for "I", then this ethereal body must be physically real and there has to be some sort of mechanism that makes this work. So far, scientists have more chances of finding the Higgs' boson!
This is simply how you interpreted your experiences. Give SOBT another revision and test it. You will see that this can be explained away by expectation, belief and a deep phase. Are you familiar with "deepening" and the fact that it can be bypassed on certain occasions?When a creation is shared by many minds it tends to seem more solid and stable less fluidic and changeable.
On ego... remember that your ego was developed. This happens the more living organisms experience and interact with their environment. It is essential for survival. It is the way of things. Have you ever considered the possibility that awareness is the result of certain interactions in the matter that pervades the universe (besides your dualist theory)?
You may believe in ghosts and an afterlife - it is your prerogative - but, scientifically, it is only hypothetical. We cannot yet rule out the evident scenario that consciousness arises from matter when we don't yet fully understand how the brain works and why certain forces in nature behave the way they do. Our great minds are working on it, and, so far, their observations of reality have majorly contributed in our development.